Premarital sex or intercourse is not mandatory to indulge in. It is not the only option to get close to your partner. There are many other and best ways to show your love for your partner and to make them realize your true love for them. Well, living in 21st century and discovering premarital sex before marriage is a very mundane fact of this era. To be honest, premarital sex should actually be avoided till you get legally tied in a knot. There are many disadvantages which arises after getting into a premarital sexual relationship. I have read many articles and forums where so many people believe that premarital sex is no bad for your relationship, in fact it strengthens your relationship and never kills the newness of your relationship.
I do really appreciate their beliefs and experiences, but there are some reasons which are scientifically proven that premarital sex is not healthy at all for a relationship. Let’s get started.
1. Losing virginity
The most essential and concerned factor is your virginity. Well, you get into a relationship and have sex with your partner thinking that he will be your future spouse for sure. But your never know what’s gonna happen next, when you realize that your love of your life is gone and you have to marry someone else and you have lost your virginity to your ex beau. Your legal spouse when discovers your virginity tale, that hurts the first impression of your relationship and your spouse.
2. Sexually transmitted diseases
Premarital sex with single or multiple partners could be really harmful. You might endure some hormonal changes due to sexual transmitted diseases like HIV AIDS, bacterial vaginosis, genital herpes, gonorrhea, pubic lice, yeast infections and many more. And your STIs can infect your legal partner and hence you will lead an unhealthy and unworthy life.
3. Unwanted pregnancy
Sex drive in a relationship before marriage is tough to get in control. You might lose your control over your sex drive which could lead you to unwanted pregnancy which brings disgrace and dishonour to you and your family.
4. Guilt and regret
Premarital sex makes you realize of course later about your fault and flaws, hence you feel guilty and regret over your hasty decision for short term fun and joy.
5. Lose of mental peace
When you regret over your wrong deed, you become restless, stressful and lose your mental peace which leads you to depression and anxiety.
6. Bad memories
When you date someone and don’t have sex, it becomes easy to forget that person. But having sex with the person and breaking up becomes way too tough, harmful and hence might damage your character. When you get married to someone else, those sexual strong memories haunts you whole life and accompany you when you go to bed with your beloved spouse.
7. Fear of Dishonouring God
When you break the laws made by God you dishonour him. That is the fear which enters your mind. You become a wrong doer in the front of God’s eyes. Hence you lose self respect and mental peace which haunts you your entire life making you fully frustrated.
8. Unhealthy and unsuccessful relationship
According to Cornell University, avoiding sex before marriage leads to healthy relationship, creates strong bonding and trust factor as compared to those who perform sexual intercourse before marriage. Because the magic of love and physical intimacy creates excitement in your marriage relationship and gradually the trust factor and bonding gets more strong.
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