Courtesy says that before marriage the basic introduction and questioning procedure must take care of one’s comfort zone. Questions that push you out of your comfort zone are usually never asked or never answered. Basic introduction which includes questions such as about your hobbies, your goals, career, education, food habits etc. are considered the ideal questions to be asked before marriage. But have you ever thought, on your wedding night what would be your reaction, when you discover that your spouse is not virgin? There are many similar weird and ugly but essential things to be discussed before marriage. Here are they..
1. Ugly past
Your past relationship with single or multiple partners, your sexual relationship with your ex-partners are somewhat essential to discuss before marriage to avoid future conflicts and insecurities. As you will never ever want to discover the relationship secrets and the character certificate of your spouse after marriage from any third person.
2. Virginity
A big no always pop up in your mind when it comes to discuss about each other’s virginity. However, I believe this is the most crucial thing to know about your spouse as discovering your spouse’s virginity tale later gonna hurt your or surprise you in some way.
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3. Sexuality
Homosexuality or heterosexuality which is normally avoided by many people especially during arrange marriages which results in broken relationships, divorces and suicidal attempts. There are many people who are homosexual but don’t even know about it and some avoid their homosexuality under the pressure of their family hence get into a wrong relationship.
4. Addictions
Be it smoking, drinking, drugs, marijuana or pornography or even masturbation addiction is an addiction and too much of anything is always considered as bad. Make the air clear about your future partner’s addictions, ask questions about the intensity of their addictions, how to get their addictions in control, how to make your relationship addiction-proof.
5. Fertility
The most rare and next to impossible matter to discuss about before marriage is about one’s fertility however no one has the track and idea about their own fertility. But if you are concerned about your partner’s fertility then there’s nothing to ask about it and to go ahead with some medical and health checkups.
6. Partner’s physical criteria
Everyone has got his/her own partner’s criteria on which they choose their future spouse. Tall, thin, healthy, looks, sexual needs and many more. However there are some questions that you must ask to your future spouse before giving a thumbs up for the marriage. What if I get fat?, what if I would not be able to meet your sexual needs?, what if my body essentials would not please you?, are some honest questions to ask your would be.
7. Children
How soon you want kids, how many kids do you want, how much age gap you need between multiple kids are some worthwhile questions to ask before marriage to clear all the doubts regarding your future spouse and his mentality.
8. Health issues
As we all know health is wealth and no one should compromise when it comes about health issues. Be it, homosexuality, infertility, HIV AIDS+, erectile dysfunction, gynecologic issues or any other serious health problems should be discussed on first priority to avoid future confusions and issues.
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