Marriage is the most essential and mandatory tradition of India where a guy and a girl has to get married after hitting the age bar of 20s. Relatives who act like a catalyst in this entire process are the most frustrating and disturbing elements who can’t mind their own business in anyway. They can’t tolerate or watch any girl or guy living and enjoying their bachelor’s life. I think it’s a kind of revenge as they want every single “single” person to be tied in a knot forcibly and suffer forever as they do. There are many reasons why Indians get married be it love or arrange marriage. However, I believe marriage is complete ruining element of one’s life where one has to adjust with his/her freedom, choices, space, opinions and decisions. Read on to find out the reasons why Indians get married?
1. Continue the pedigree
The pedigree is the generation of specific family of a particular community which needs to be continued. Parents, grandparents want their kids and grand kids to establish and get married to give birth to a new generation to continue their family and blood glory.
2. Life security
Parents get worried and emotional gradually when their kids be it a guy or a girl start earning or get matured and hence they step forward to search a life partner for their kids so that their life will be secured. Parents know that they can’t be with their kids forever so their kids need someone best to spend the rest of the life.
3. Avoid constant nagging
Some bachelors love their single life and hence they avoid the idea of getting married. But when their parents continue the consistent nagging about the idea of marriage, the kids finally agree to get married being totally frustrated to avoid conflicts and arguments.
4. Physical and mental needs
No matter how much you love your bachelor life, you can’t enjoy your physical relationships with different partners forever. There comes more disturbances, depressions, conflicts, health issues, troubles hence for a better permanent solution of physical needs like sexual needs, physical intimacy and mental needs like to share feelings, cry over shoulders, to get a peaceful and blissful life most Indians henceforth decide to get tied in a knot.
5. To become more responsible
Single persons who are not that matured, serious about life and responsible get married to become more stable, responsible and reasonable towards life. They hence understand the real face of life, society and needs to live the life more reasonably and logically.
6. Legal relationship
Society accepts a couple when they are legally husband and wife. The Indian society mentality never allows any couple to stay together in a living relationship until they are married. They can’t have an established life, family hence they have to get legally married.
7. Spending life with love interest
People who fall in love and stay in relationships usually wish to get married to their love interest, their true love before it’s too late. When a guy or a girl get serious and stable about their love relationship they decide to get married to stay together forever.
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8. Old Indian culture
Some Indians who blindly believe and follow the old Indian culture and tradition accept marriage as a part of a life and take it as a new phase of life. Hence they simply get married without any questions and queries and opt to live in marriage relationship.
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