The most important element while having sexual intercourse with your spouse is keeping each other’s need, satisfaction and safety in mind. When it comes to what women on bed, men tend to make serious mistakes. We all know men want to be sex magnet but being perfect in bed needs some knowledge and experience. Women who actually want to let their men to know about what they want on bed stay mum about their sex wishes not to hurt their mens’ ego. But it’s very essential to let your spouse know about your wishes for having a smooth and satisfying sex. Mistakes men make on bed that are mostly ignored by women are as follows.
1. Not initiating with kisses
Hopping on your wife to have sex is one of the huge mistake that every man make on bed. Ingnoring her lips and diving straight to her arousing spots never leads you to an amazing sex experience. For a long lasting sexual intercourse start with kissing and foreplay to get more intense love making.
2. Less time for foreplay
Men will be men!! Sorry guys, but it’s true that men are obsessed about major act, especially vagina. They think that focusing more on women vagina will do the best work to reach orgasm and satisfaction. But, things are little different, besides vagina, women have other erogenous spots that needs attention too for amazing love making experience. Attacking only on sex is the most common mistake men make on bed.
3. Silent Sex
Silent love making is non-exciting and often leads to boring sex. Foreplay is very important as it is the sex booster to turn you on for a very long time. Men never spend a little more time focusing on her erogenous zones but foreplay give rises to pleasing pain moans which nourishes and energizes your sexual act.
4. Ignoring her reactions
Keep a close record on her reactions to every action. How she feels when you touch her skin, her lips, her clitoris, her thighs to know which are her weakest spots that turns her on. But men usually go blind while having sex with no such idea about her erogenous spots and sensations.
5. Going too fast
Another mistake men make on bed is going too fast. Guys, why so hush hush? If you are into love making make it slow and smooth. Women love being caressed. They love intense love making. Enjoy the moment of your love making and let your woman feel it. Don’t rush while foreplay and sex. it ruins and spoils the charm. Well you can go fast to make her.. if you know what I mean.
6. Keep her entire body on focus
Not only her boobs, her clitoris are important, but her entire skin, all her body parts creates sensual sensation when you touch them smoothly and intensely. Try to balance your attention towards her body parts, not just focus only on her G-spot and nipples but also go for her neck, back, stomach, thighs etc.
7. Biting her nipples
Really? Let your woman to bite your poor developed breast nipples then I guess, you would know how sexy it is? Biting your woman’s nipples not only hurt her but also ruins her interest and excitement for love making. Now go bite her nipples, you morons!
8. Wasting time for orgasm
Men when focus on womens’ G-spot to give them a nice exciting orgasm forget about real deep and intense love making. They stress so much for the ‘O’ part that they miss every charm and fun of love making, which stress them too much and make them lose their interest.
9. Pushing her head in while blowjob
Guys, have patience! If your woman is blowing and sucking your cock, let her do in her way. Don’t push her head in as you could chock her or stress her. It’s an act of foreplay, try to be more smooth not rough.
10. Asking why is she not getting orgasm
What you think, asking her why is she not getting the orgasm makes her feel more erotic and will make her reach her orgasm? You are killing the mood and the excitement. It’s your job to satisfy her and bring her orgasm out, if you can’t try till she gets it.
11. Going too hard
Yet another and common mistake men make on bed is going too rough and hard. There’s nothing bad about being little rough and hard while having sex as there are many women who love rough sex and love making. But going too hard too far never gives you a nice love making experience as no one wants to leave bedroom for medical attention.
12. Ignoring her after completing sex
Once you got your satisfaction, you are done you leave for washroom. But, what if she needs you more on bed for more pleasure, for being caressed, being cuddled, or she might need help to get dressed? After having sex, stay with your woman as it makes her feel that you not only care for her satisfaction but also respect her feelings.
13. Squeezing her breast
They are not the melons or mangoes that you will squeeze them. Being rough doesn’t means hurting your partner physically and giving her pain. If you explore her body, go smooth and soft on her. Kiss them, caress them but never hurt.
14. Ignoring her other body parts
While having sex, not only focus on riding but also keep kissing her, touching her, caressing her which will hold her romantically and intensely till she gets the orgasm. Remember, if you satisfy your partner, you will be satisfied her your partner. Ignoring her other body parts while love making is the most common mistake men make on bed.
15. Attacking the clitoris
Don’t attack her vagina or clitoris giving all your pressure. Slip your fingers or your apparatus gently to make her comfortable.
16. Undressing her awkwardly
She is your woman, try to make her comfortable. Don’t undress her awkwardly as it might hurt her and could seem like raping.
17. Being too desperate about vagina
Some men are so much desperate about womens’ vagina that they initially jump on to their vagina inserting their cock inside them. Go slow, start kissing her, make her desire for you and turn her on before riding her.
18. Undressing yourself first
Again what makes you so hurry? Without giving her the attention you start stripping your clothes. That is totally mood spoiling and irritating which might end up at a bad brawl.
19. Be careful when slipping the finger inside her
Some men forget that woman’s clitoris is her body part, and hurting her clitoris could cause pain. They forcibly insert multiple fingers which might hurt the lady, even unshaped or sharp nails could hurt her inside vagina too.
20. Cumming too soon
Biggest mistake men make on bed is cumming too soon. Take breaks while having sex which involves little kissing, smooching, rubbing which will hold on your ejaculation and will satisfy your woman too.
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