Why Suicide Is Never The Solution To Any Problem?

“My life sucks!!” “I am a loser”. “I am so unlucky”. “She/he left me”. “My life is over”. “I should die and all problems will be ultimately solved”. These are some mundane thoughts that pop up in every individual’s mind who attempt to suicide or commit suicide. But wait, before attempting for suicide let’s have a close glance at its negative and positive aspects. Death is natural part of life. You have got a serious problem, and you can’t take it anymore. You decide to finish yourself and finish the problem, but do you think the problem really ends there? You will b dead and so will be your issues but what about your near and dear ones? What about their feelings, their happiness? Your suicidal attempt not only ultimately proves you as a coward but also as a selfish person. You are so coward that you don’t have the guts to face your issues and troubles. You are not dare enough to fight back. You are so selfish that for your betterment and solutions that you could skip your life not even caring about your parents and loved ones for once. Remember when you kill yourself, you kill all your loved ones and all wishes and desires related to them. However, suicide is a temporary solution to your problems at the cost of your life permanently. There are some positive and permanent solutions too that you need to look out for.

1. Every problem has its solution

If there will be no solution, there will be no existence of a problem. Whatever the problems are, be it personal or social every problem can be solved for sure. All you need is patience, daring and trust on yourself. It’s your life, and it’s your responsibility to make it large by overcoming every hurdles and issues that comes to your end. This will make you a real fighter not a quitter.

2. Things will change gradually

Time is the biggest player. It heals and changes everything. Whatever you situation is, time will never stay the same. Like after every night comes a bright day, similarly after every problem there comes a solution. All you need to do is recognize your solution staying alert.

3. There is always a second option

Believe me. There is never one solution to any problem. Options are always there, and needs to be opted and recognised. No matter how much you feel lost, frustrated, depressed or low, believe that there should be another option. There is always. Find out or seek for help.

4. Avoid your thoughts, focus more on the facts

Yes, emotions are very effective and influencing. They get heavier on our mind and heart. But during problems and issues you need to be logical and practical. Analyze every aspect of your issue, leave no stones unturned and no facts unchecked. You need to dissect your issue by pricking every strand. And trust me you will find a clue and a chain of clue to a permanent solution.

5. You have never seen the future

You might have reached to edge of your sufferings and will think that there’s no way out. But, the 99% rule says that future can’t be predicted with 100% certainty. Just wait and go with the flow. You will ultimately realize that things are getting changed and getting better.

6. Life is one, and there’s no turning back

Just imagine, after your death, you come to know that your issue has been solved by any other means and your suicidal attempt is gone waste. You will be sitting beside your dead body and you will be looking at your loved ones crying, sobbing beside your dead body. And that moment, neither you could go back, neither you could make the clock go back. It’s better to confront, than to repent being a helpless soul.

7. Death is not the permanent solution

You so fed up that you committed suicide. But your problem might have stopped chasing you, but it will find its new victim. And there goes the chain reaction of suicidal attempts. What’s the value of killing yourself? But, if you would have faced it, solved it you might have been a role model or an example to encourage and influence others in troubles.

So, guys just don’t think only about yourself because committing suicide is a crime for which you will be punishing yourself at the very moment and is a act of selfishness. Just analyse your problems at 360 degree angle and think logically not emotionally. Life is way too precious and you could achieve more by saving your life. Live your life like a real brave and bold person and face it. Remember there’s always a second option. Find it!!

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