Wedding Night Guide For Every Bride

All those long plannings, arrangements, ceremonial customs, traditional rites finally over, and now you are officially wedded husband and wife.

Many of us get so busy in the preparations of wedding day and the get up for the grand day that we forget about the grand night. Yes you got it right, I’m talking about your official first night. However, first nights are casual and exciting for some couple but nerve wracking for some too. Many couples get cold feet and get nervous even if they have spent some intimate moments with each other before. Hence it doesn’t matters that you are already familiar and close to your spouse or meeting them first time on your first night, you will be getting nervy and neurotic anyways on your grand night.

So, girls not to worry if you have no clue and idea about your first night, as I am bringing you the entire wedding night guide which will help you a lot!

1. Mission may not be accomplished

It’s not necessary that you will be consummating on your wedding first night as you are so tired and exhausted from all ceremonies, rituals ad party stuffs. So, there’s nothing to worry about. There are many newly wedded couples who feel the same way. So, talking and cuddling is a nice idea, even better.

2. Better remove and unfasten your hair pins and jewelleries

It’s totally awkward when your hair pin would be poking your head or your spouse body while you get started.

3. Come out of your fairy tale dream

If you think that your wedding night is going to be perfect, beautiful, straight and organised, like movies and fairy tales, then let me tell you it rarely happens in real life. You will get to know gradually as there are so many nights yet to come.

4. Menstruation clash

If you think your periods would be coinciding your wedding night, then better consult a gynecologist, take some oral medication to delay or forward your periods and if this doesn’t work for you, better talk to your spouse, after all he is your husband.

5. 1^st night or 1^st week, not compulsory

It’s okay if you are not having sexual intercourse on your first night or even in the first week, especially when it’s arranged. Take some time to get adjust with your husband, know him, be comfortable then you can go for the final mission, doesn’t matters if it’s after one month or five months.

6. First time may be awkward

It’s totally fine if you are getting intimate with your husband on first night and feeling awkward, shy or embarrassed. You, never know, he might be nervous too.

7. Don’t act shy bride if you’re not

If you are straight with your points and opinions in nature, then be original, rather being coy and shy. Speak up what you feel and whatever you want to share.

8. Have your best lingerie with you, best if its nude colour

You never know you might end up being intimate with your hubby, so it’s better to be prepared.

9. Shave all your extra body hairs, a day before wedding day

No one wants to be messy and embarrassed on the first night. Even if you are not having sex, you might cuddle and have some foreplay. So better be clean and shaved.

10. Always go slow

You both would be tired and no need to rush. Initiate from nice lovely talk, cuddle, and if you feel comfortable then go for it.

11. You and your husband won’t know everything

Don’t expect too much from your spouse and yourself, as if something goes awkward or you get disappointed then it’s not a good start for your relationship. So always wear a learner’s hat.

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12. Your wedding night may be messy and unclean

Unlike movie scenes, your first night might get messy. You may feel unclean, as sex is really not neat. So, be prepared.

13. First time can hurt you a little

You might get to see some blood on your first night, but there’s nothing to worry. Don’t be scared, as you are using your never used muscles for first time, so be gentle, careful and use more lubrication. Your body will get used to it and sex will no longer hurt.

14. It’s not only about ‘SEX’

Marrying someone, is more than sex and love. You have to get absorbed into your spouse feelings, nature and wishes. It’s an emotional and trust based relation which needs most care and pampering. So, if you are not having sex on first night, it’s not a big deal. Understand your spouse and ignite love and trust before you get intimate.

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So, girls don’t scare yourself, relax as much as you can. If you are not sure about being intimate, don’t do it. It’s totally fine, always communicate with your spouse. Talk to him and be gentle. If still confused, get a mentor talk to him/her, clear your doubts and lead a safe, healthy and romantic relationship. Happy Wedding!!