10 Ways to Find Out Your Man Is a Gay

Being in a relationship and maintaining it from every storms and waves is not that easy. There are so many ups and downs that are endured by every couple. The most toughest challenge that any couple could deal with is when you get to know that your counterpart has got affection for the same sex. Sometimes, it takes more than several years for women even after getting married, to find out that their spouse are homosexual. It can be real shock for any girl to know that the guy she has been dating since two to three years is a gay.

But, hey wait, just think why do a gay man would date a woman over man in first place? Have you ever thought about it? Believe it or not, when a guy realizes that he is attracted towards the same gender or men, or he finds out that he is a gay, it’s not that easy for him to accept this truth and avoid to date women in first place. It’s a real shock for them too!! Don’t blame the guy blindly, rather put that blame on the society who are still not free and open enough to accept a gay person and a gay person can be just a perfect man like other straight guys. And let me tell you, that many gay guys don’t even know that they are gay.

It’s not that easy to recognise a gay person from a group of men. If you think it’s not that easy to find out that a man is gay or not, then here are some sure 10 signs to find out whether your man is a gay or straight.

1. He stares at men

If you catch him staring consistently at men, when he thinks you are not watching him then it’s a signal for you. Better go for a beach and then try to find out if your man is staring at other guys who are muscular and enjoying really seeing them or compliments about those guys.

2. He isn’t interested to have sex with you

Just keep your eye closely on him if he loses his passion to have sex with you or don’t you passionately rather breaks away from the kiss in mere seconds or he is not more likely to be interested in other women who are way too sexy and hot. This can be the signs of his homosexuality.

3. He flirt’s with men

Guys don’t talk sweet to their folks and buddies. Girls definitely talk sweet but, men usually keep it short and straight. In fact, guys even don’t like to be nice with each other. Only a man who is a gay or attracted towards men can do this, talking all sweet, commenting and complimenting on their dressing sense and appearance.

4. He loves it in ass

The gay guys love definitely something in the ass, while having sex. If your man enjoys getting penetrated by your dildo, more than penetrating you, then there are 90% chances of his being a homosexual.

5. He watches a lot of gay porn movies

Straight guys don’t watch gay porn. But curiosity and excitement of watching gay porn now and then could be a serious signal. Gay guys get pleasure of watching more than ten gay porn movies in a row.

6. He grooms himself closely

Well, you need to watch how precisely he grooms himself. Grooming is not a sure sign, but if he is taking it long for two hours, then it’s something fishy. Keep your eye what products he owns or uses.

7. He watches female oriented programmes

Guy’s usually hate of watching daily soaps, or beauty queen contests or kind of award functions. But if your man watches daily soaps, and these womanly stuffs, then you really get ready for a calm talk.

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8. He feels uncomfortable in public toilets

Gay men, who are new about their discovery, often feel uncomfortable in public toilets, even don’t use toilets in public. If he refuses to use toilet in public and wants to go home instead, then it might be a hint that he is not comfortable in his sexuality.

9. His gaming avatar

Gay men often chose female avatar or a very hunky character. It is psychologically proven. So next time watch his gaming habits and find out what character he picks as his avatar.

10. He compliments with full detail

Listen carefully the way he compliments you or anybody else. If he tells ‘you are looking beautiful’ then you can take a relieved breath but, if he says ‘your short jacket goes amazingly cute with your skinny jeans but you should have concluded your look with perfect diamante boots and a pink nail shade’ then it’s a trouble call for you. Gay men are mostly fashionable and keep each detailing of fashion.

Now, if you find out, your man is gay then, don’t lose your temper. Be calm, sit down and talk to him. He might be confused too about his sexuality, and how much hurt you feel, try to remember why you loved him. Don’t use his sexuality to hurt him, as he won’t have ever tried to hurt you and you never know he might change too. So try to be respectful and calm when you talk.