Thoughts That Hit Every Indian Bride While Getting Married
This post was last updated on July 24th, 2023
Unlike men, wedding is the most beautiful day of a woman’s life, for which she assembles lot of dreams and wishes from her very teenage. Every woman aspires to make her wedding day the grand day of her life making it flawless for which she puts her all best efforts. She plans her every details of her wedding day starting from the hairstyle to her elegant pair of sandals. Despite of these her pre-plans, she experiences a roller coaster ride of thoughts which hit her mind every hour, every minute and every second.
Wedding day is a big day for every girl which gives her cold feet. So here are some common thoughts which you need to know that every Indian bride goes through before/while getting married.
1. I can’t believe I m getting married
When the grand day finally arrives, every bride just gets surrounded by a deluge of thoughts. She barely could imagine and believe what’s happening and what’s going to happen, she gets confused and nervous which is quite normal for every bride.
2. Is this a right decision for me?
These kind of thoughts are obvious on the wedding day, which makes every bride concern about her life partner whether he is the right choice, or he has the best qualities that you need from your partner, or will he be caring for you or will he be supporting you at your tough times. Well, these kind of thoughts are obvious and normal, after all you have to leave your family to live with him forever.
3. How I’m gonna stay without my family?
For any Indian bride, it’s never easy leave behind her loved ones, her family, her own home to get settled with someone else forever. But, that’s a normal worry, as she will miss her family, but the brighter side is she will be getting so many new relations, love and warmth from her in-laws which will make her feel good and secured.
4. Oh God! Am I looking fat?
Every bride worries about her figure on the wedding day, as she want to look slim on her grand day. But as all brides are not blesses with nice shape, hence they worry about looking bulky in their wedding dress. The best trick to look slimmer is hold your shoulders back and push your chin outward. Don’t look straight at the camera rather tilt your shoulders in the direction of the photographer.
5. Is everything happening as per the plan?
Every bride dreams and plans for her wedding day from a very long time. Hence, they want that everything should go according to the plan, so that everybody love the arrangement.
6. My make up should not fade
Bride has to look beautiful and perfect entire her wedding day, so she has to take utmost care of her make up, so that her makeup doesn’t run.
7. Are they gonna like me?
Well, it’s the most common and certain thought which hits every bride. Because, on the wedding day many relatives from the groom’s end get to see the bride for first time, and their first opinions, views and comments should be positive that every bride wants.
8. What kind of people my in-laws would be?
Well, being nervous and wondering about the in-laws, their behaviour, attitude is as expected. As we don’t know much about new people we meet. Every bride gets concerned about how to adjust with new people and how to win their hearts, as she has to live with them forever.
9. What I’m gonna do on the first night?
Be it arrange marriage or love marriage every bride gets cold feet and sweating hands when it comes to her first wedding night, as that night is quite special and beautiful for every couple. However, being open about your feelings with your husband can reduce your nervousness.
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Well, these thoughts are totally normal for any newly wedded bride, so don’t get over absorbed into these thoughts, take deep breath and look at your would be spouse and take a new step to your ultra fresh phase of life.
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