10 Things That Men Stop Doing After Marriage

It’s quite disappointing to know that men after getting married start taking their wives for granted. They assume that marriage is the key to freedom from all romantic duties and customs. Being a woman, I believe that men after marriage become little lazybones sooner or later who avoid maximum efforts as they know it that their wives would be there for them forever. But don’t worry ladies, that doesn’t mean, your husbands don’t love you or don’t find you attractive anymore, actually they love you, want to be father of your kids and wanna protect you too, but when it comes about being little chivalrous, men rather become lacklustre to be true. They not only forget expressing their love but also forget being generous and gentle. So, men if you are screwed up now reading the bullshit (for you) but true facts (about you) let’s take a close glance at 10 things that men totally stop doing after marriage.

1. Maintaining Eye Contact

She was your girlfriend and now your wife. She loved you then and now, she adored you then and now. Then, guys what makes you stop to make a proper eye contact. You love her and still forget to show your deep feelings to her. Believe it or not, your marital life will be much more blissful if you make her feel your emotions and feelings.

2. Taking her out on dates

Okay, let me tell you that it’s nowhere mentioned that only girlfriends are meant to be taken on dates and wives only for family reunions. You are married couples, make love as much as you can. Make you significant other comfortable and happy. Take her out on dates, long drives, candle lit dinners, disc night and enjoy your marital love to fill your relationship with more romantic and magical moments.

3. Complimenting her

Well, I wonder why men stop doing this after marriage? Don’t your wife look beautiful anymore? Isn’t she sexy and hot? I think if you have married her there must be a reason especially that love which attracted you towards her. So, why being such a nerd while complimenting your beautiful wife? No matter how much true your compliment is, but your wife always expects a nice  compliment whenever she walks by you, she wears a new lingerie, when she gets fit into her new evening gown or a nice sequin saree, all she wants is your attention which makes her feel secured.

4. Being chivalry

Your girlfriend remembers that how you used to draw a chair for her at the restaurant, pull the door for her while getting inside the shopping mall, opening the car’s door for her till she gets in. So, what’s the big deal now? She is your wife, do the same as you were used to do. Does this makes you less important or less-a-man? I think if you are a real gentleman, you will do it.

5. Maintaining your fitness

Woah! What about your concerns for the biceps, triceps and abs when you were single and had a girlfriend? You men try hard to be fit to impress girls and when you get into a relationship legally you take you wives for granted and forget about all those fake ideas and start lazing around your home.

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6. Holding her hands

Remember those days, when you were walking on the beach side holding each others’ hands and feeling the fresh air in the backdrop of sunset. How romantic was that? But you have forgot that totally, isn’t it? This thing is most common in the hit list of what men stop doing after marriage? Guys, don’t be lacklustre get up and live your romantic life again. Make your love life full of magic and excitement, thi will help your relationship to be more strong and long lasting.

7. Helping her in daily housechores

Awww! was what your girlfriend used to say when you always helped her in her office works, household chores, in the kitchen and laundry. Why not now? She manages your home, your kitchen, your laundry and especially you. So if you help her a little, your wife will feel good and happy. Her love for you will start increasing. She will appreciate even your minimum efforts for sure.

8. Giving romantic surprises

Every woman loves presents and gifts. Precious romantic surprises fill every woman’s heart with more love, happiness, excitement which brings back the old magical days of love for you. If you can waste all your pocket moneys on your girlfriend then why not a little of your salary for your wife?. Try it, its worth it!

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9. Sending texts or calling at work

The short romantic calls in the middle of your work, or texts and chats with your girlfriend which were tough to resist are gone now? Why? Don’t you love her anymore? Or Shall I say you have become a monotonous and dull person who don’t want any excitement in his love life? Just figure out guys, if this is not the thing what men stop doing after marriage.

10. Saying “I love You”

The exact answer can only be extracted from your girlfriend(s) who have surely counted how many times you would have said “I LOVE YOU” in a day and then we can calculate the number of “I Love You(s)” in a year. But, sadly I think you would not be hitting your hat-trick of saying “I LOVE YOU” even in three weeks. Am I right guys?