Significance of Space in a Relationship

Relationships May 18, 2015

This post was last updated on March 1st, 2016

Understanding the basic of Space in a relationship.

Being in a relationship doesn’t mean getting chained together all the time or never getting isolated again and making it a fixation and working around with it. Yes, spending your quality time together is essential for a beautiful relationship but that doesn’t imply to comprise with your personal space. Space is as important for a relationship as a good sex life is for a successful marriage. If you want to avoid those marrow chilling lines, “We need to talk…’’, “I don’t think it’s working now…”, “Where do you see this relationship is going..”, then do give a sufficient space to your partner. We all have our own interests and habits. We all need our space. Having space and privacy is very important for our identity. You cannot just blindly sacrifice everything your time, your interests, your hobbies or may be your individuality for the one you love. It is very familiar tendency, after getting into a relationship we define ourselves by our relations we are in, like I am “X’s girlfriend or ‘Y’s wife” which leaves us feeling confined to our partner and our relation.

Concept of Inundation.

Love which makes us so blind that staying together all the time makes us and our counterpart feel like suffocated and some sort of interference which feels like getting imprisoned in relationship. This particular behaviour is termed as “Inundation” by the psychologists. It is a normal human behaviour to feel like trapped in a relationship, when being permanently shackled to each other having trust on one another and sacrificing and fulfilling the needs of each other’s partner. Inundation in a relationship can be a serious problem as it affects the love of your counterpart. It forces people to demand for solitude and makes people to do something that their partner hates most or dislike most.

Why Space is a necessary factor of Relationship.

Personal space is not only essential for a relation but also for an individual, however the amount of space needed does always depends on the couple. It’s something like a mutual understanding which can be balanced well by both partners.We all need some time to get relaxed, engage in activities what interests us more, which helps in our personality development and growth. The most beautiful and magical part of having or giving space is that it rekindles the magic in a dying relationship. When you no longer feel like one being and your exasperation of inundation no longer exists, then the communication and interactions between you and your partner becomes way too interesting and captivating. The most important factor of providing space in a relationship is letting your partner to do what interests them more. Supporting them in their individual decisions, their work or in their joyful moments it can be anything really. You will be honestly excited to see each other after a long interval, you will again fall in love with the same person and will able to feel love in air like your early dating days. The feeling will create lots and lots of love naturally.

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