Reasons Why You Need Sex Toys in a Relationship

A few months ago, a 29,000-year-old phallus was found in the region of Germany which is said to be one of the oldest known ‘sex aid’ ever seen. Are you in disbelief? Don’t be, because sex toys date back to several years, but it is only now that we are comfortable talking about it publicly, buying and using them.

If you are shying away from experimenting with one of the adult toys, can I announce to you that they are essential because they are technically crafted to increase the pleasure in bed. Contrary to the wide-spread belief, these sex devices are not an ‘alternative’ to sexual partners but rather is both beneficial to couples and singles as well. This article thus points out some of the reasons why intimacy products are great for your relationship.

1.       It helps strengthen intimacy

 The inclusion or addition of sex aids to your relationship sponsors further exploration into your sex life. This exploration does not only bring excitement but also knowledge about what and how you and your partner enjoy sex the most. Truth be told: you will never forget the person who first handcuffed you to the bedpost. There are butt plugs for those seeking to try out anal play, remote toys that your sex partner can control across the room, gag ball, whips, nipple clamps and blindfolds for those seeking to take their BDSM game up a few notches. 

The more you learn about each other in this regard, the higher the intimacy that builds up between both of you. And research has shown that intimacy both in and out of the bedroom is very crucial for a happy and healthy relationship.

2.    It helps in building sexual stamina

Do you or your partner orgasm more quickly than desired? Is it causing anxiety and frustration in the relationship? The good news is there is a solution, and the great news is that you will enjoy yourself while working on the issue. Just the way you train at the gym or through sport to improve your physical fitness, you can as well enhance your sexual stamina through a course of training.

For the male partner, you can get a male masturbator (e.g. a fleshlight) or a sex doll or a cock ring. A fleshlight is a sex aid that mimics the feel of a vagina, and you can continually use it to try and prolong your ejaculation. A sex doll, on the other hand, is crucial when you want a hands-free item and it helps you train with different positions to know the areas that make you cum quickly and those that you last longer in. You can order for a sex doll online at AdultShopSexToys.com and SexDoll.com. You and your partner can work on this together or individually. 

3.    It will help fulfil your sexual fantasies

There is a famous saying whose authenticity cannot be denied and that is -“that everyone has sexual fantasies” EVERYONE. Sextoys gives room for you to explore those fantasies which may include double penetration, bondage and threesomes. 

So maybe you have wanted to play the role of an authoritative school teacher or a police officer handcuffing your partner to the bed,- whatever your fantasy is, using toys, dressing up and role-playing is the best way to get it out of your head into the real world.

4.    Sextoys means better sex

There is no existing couple that doesn’t crave for more enjoyable sex. According to Stacy Rybchin of “My Secret Luxury”, everyone needs and can do with more sex. Sextoys can help couples spice up things and have a variety of experiences in the bedroom. Your sexual relationship will be more satisfying if your sexual attitude is playful. Studies have shown that couples who have a fantastic sex life are more prone to having a happy relationship than those whose sex life is not impressive.

5.    Sex toys take the pressure off you and your partner 

If you are suffering from performance anxiety, you are not alone. Women are concerned about their ability to climax during sex as are men worried about being able to make a woman orgasm during sexual intercourse. That being said, introducing sex toys such as We-Vibe Sync (for couples) during sex will build the confidence of both partners and help them reach orgasm as a couple. It will help the male partner know the part of his woman’s clitoris, which is sensitive and when correctly stimulated will help her climax during sexual activity.

6.    Multiple orgasms for both partners 

Once the pressure is off you and your partner, then you can open the door to not just orgasms that are easier to attain but to multiple orgasms. It has been proven scientifically that Vibrators enhance sexual satisfaction, so you, your partner and the toys are set-ups for an intense situation that is full of more orgasms than you will probably get if it was just you and your partner devoid of the sex toys.

In conclusion, ensure there is a free flow of communication between you and your partner to ensure that your sex life is not devoid of the full pleasure and excitement it deserves