12 Reasons Why It’s Absolutely Fine Not To Get Married

The concept of marriage has gone viral, I guess! Every single senior citizen be it your uncle, aunty, mother, father, grandma, grandpa or even neighbours stay much concerned about the wedding plans of each youth in this nation. The moment you hit your 20s the whole world around you obtains a new found obsession to see you tying the knot. I always wonder why marriage has been made into the ultimate life goal. The reason why I said that the concept of marriage has gone viral is because most people grow up just wanting to get married because they all grew up seeing everyone getting married around them and hence assume it is a stage every person has to go through. But how many people who get married do so because they actually want to? It really just doesn’t make sense to rush into marrying just because everyone else is. Well, here are some reasons you all would agree why its totally fine not to get married.

1. Your career is the most important thing for you

It doesn’t matters if you are married or not because if you are well settled and have a nice established career then you have got a superb life. You are earning and have no one to waste your money except you.

2. You love kids but they should be someone else’s

You don’t want kids till you hit your 80s right. Totally agree! There’s nothing bad if you don’t want your kids, it depends on your choice and your consent.

3. You believe in love at first sight

If you love falling in love it’s amazing and that happens every now and then. Totally fine if you fall in love again and again and for that you prefer not to get married. It’s your life and your rule.

4. Many singles are successful and happy

Tabu, Karan Johar, Cameron Diaz, Salman Khan, Sushmita Sen are some of our favourite stars who are successful and happy being single. Amazing and best examples to stay single.

5. Your relatives get annoyed not you

Well if you think your “not getting married” decision annoys your relatives then why should you care? If you are happy with your decision then I guess you are on the right track.

6. You want to be a free bird

Marriage comes with responsibility and some restrictions. But you are not ready for those responsibilities, so not a big deal. You can’t let anyone to force you to get tied in a knot. Stay free as long as you want even if forever.

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7. You are carefree, available and spontaneous

But getting tied in a knot will curb all these characteristics of yours. So it’s totally fine not to get married.

8. You don’t want to waste your dad’s savings

A nice thought! Save money for something better idea. Well, a foolish idea to get married and spend all your wealth only to curb all your priorities.

9. You don’t want to share your bed

Yeah, nothing is wrong if you don’t want to share your bed with anyone. Marrying someone will make you to share your life’s space as well as your bed’s space with your spouse.

10. Marriage comes with in-laws

The worst nightmare anyone could have. Marriage brings a spouse, a spouse who comes with in-laws who brings responsibilities and rules. You can’t take it, stay single.

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11. You scare from the work ‘FOREVER’

If you get sweat and fever by hearing and thinking the word ‘Forever’ then my friend don’t get married. Getting with someone forever is not an easy task for everyone. If you doubt, step back and enjoy being single.

12. ‘Happily Ever After’ is like ‘Santa Claus’

Do you believe Santa Claus? because it’s something that is not true exactly and so is the clause ‘Happily Ever After’. So, it’s perfectly better not to get married.