A Safe Kink: Maintaining Hygiene and Longevity of BDSM Gags Mouth

Let’s face it – when it comes to the birds and the bees, we don’t always want them doused in vanilla. Sometimes, we like to spice things up and include some fantasy roleplay scenarios, even a splash of BDSM. And for these types of kink, it’s often accompanied by various sex toys for the whole experience.

A popular toy for these roleplay scenes, especially when you’re into BDSM play with your partner, are gags. These BDSM gags are placed over the mouth to keep the wear from speaking. It comes in many different varieties – those that fill the mouth and the ones that force it open. Each of these types caters to different personal tastes, roleplay scenes, and safety considerations for each individual’s needs. 

Gags also function as a complimentary accessory to bondages and other types of physical restraints. For partners who enjoy the interplay of power and surrender, these devices are a sure way to increase erotic pleasure, of course, with caution.  A gag comes with some risks, including asphyxiation if the wearer wears a gag that is too tight and their airways feel obstructed. Additionally, as this tool completely prevents the wearer from being able to talk, there has to be an alternative hand or body signal for safeword to keep the session safe and the wearer protected.

Like many sex toys, it can also be a breeding ground for bacteria and other contaminants if not properly maintained or cleaned. Proper cleaning procedure generally depends on the type of material, with some being easier to clean than others. 

Silicone Gags

Silicone gags are probably the most popular type of gag due to their durability and ease of cleaning. Their non-porous nature makes them resistant to bacterial buildup, nor does it outgas and smell like sulfur when exposed to heat. Cleaning a silicone gag is pretty much straightforward. You can use warm water and mild soap to get the job done.

Silicone gags are easier to maintain in general. They can even withstand a dishwasher cleanup for thorough sanitizing. However, beyond general cleaning, it is still essential to read the fine print about the specific quality of the type of silicone you have and confirm if it is machine wash friendly from the manufacturers.

Leather Gags

Leather gags are mostly preferred for their aesthetic appeal, as well as their sensory experience. However, they are pretty sensitive to care for. Due to the porous nature of leather, it’s crucial to avoid excessive moisture, which could lead to damage or mildew. They must also be kept in a cool, dry place and have regular conditioning to maintain their suppleness and prevent cracking.

Cleaning leather gags involves gentle handwashing with saddle soap and warm water. Saddle soap is a preparatory compound with ingredients like neatsfoot oil, lanolin, glycerin, and beeswax. These ingredients collectively serve the essential functions of cleaning, softening, and conditioning leather, ensuring its overall care and maintenance.

PVC and Vinyl Gags

These gags are the more inexpensive choice, which suits those who are still exploring this type of kink. They provide various textures and colors and maybe a bit more challenging to maintain due to their porous quality. They require some lint-free storage bags to ensure they are kept in mint condition.

Cleaning PVC or vinyl gags usually requires mild soap and water, but it’s essential to avoid harsh chemicals that might damage the material’s surface. It is also important you adhere to any specific manufacturer instructions relevant to your PVC material type.

Rubber/Latex Gags

Gags made of rubber or latex offer a different texture and sensation, but they also require careful maintenance. They are easy to stain when they come in contact with metals, such as copper, brass, and bronze, as well as other latex materials with different colors. These gags are also vulnerable to oil-based lubricants, as these chemicals could cause irreparable damage to the porous latex.

Cleaning rubber to latex gags is similar to silicone gags – handwashing with mild soap and warm water. Avoid using oil-based products or anything containing petroleum, as they can degrade rubber or latex materials. After cleaning, ensure thorough drying to prevent any lingering moisture that could cause deterioration.

General Cleaning Procedures

Using an unclean gag or sex toy, for that matter, is like feeling a loose mint at the bottom of your car console – sticky and covered with crumbs. On the worse end, it also has several health consequences caused by infections in your nether regions from exposure to various contaminants like lint and dust, as well as bacteria build-up.

Regardless of the material, a general rule of thumb is to clean gags before and after each use to maintain hygiene. But if you want to be lenient about it, at least wash it immediately after use. If you’re sharing your gags, then it’s a much better reason to clean them thoroughly before and after use. 

For proper cleaning procedures, make sure to read your manufacturer’s guide carefully. Here’s a quick reference when cleaning various types of sex toys: https://www.womens-health.com/how-to-clean-sex-toys. In a nutshell, sex gags follow the same process as below:

1. General Cleaning: Promptly remove any debris or residue promptly to prevent buildup. For all gags, begin by rinsing them with lukewarm water to remove surface dirt or saliva.

2. Handwashing Method: Prepare a solution of mild soap and warm water. Use a soft cloth or sponge to gently clean the gag, ensuring it reaches all crevices and edges. Rinse thoroughly to remove any soap residue.

Some gags, particularly silicone ones, might be safe for machine washing. Always consult the manufacturer’s instructions to confirm this. If machine washing is appropriate, place the gag in a mesh laundry bag or pillowcase to protect it, and use a gentle cycle with mild detergent.

3. Drying: After cleaning, allow the gag to air dry thoroughly before storing it. Pat dry with a clean towel or cloth to remove excess moisture. Avoid exposing leather gags to direct heat sources, as this can cause drying and damage the material.

4. Storing: If you are a BDSM toy collector, make sure to store each of your tools or toys separately. Avoid keeping your gags together with your whips and chains. Placing each of them inside individual plastic bags with locking capability, such as zip locks, is a great way to keep them safe from environmental contaminants and other debris.

Getting into your kinky mood can be exhilarating, yet the excitement can escalate faster than expected, sometimes leading to unintended boundaries being crossed in a rush. See this article for a comprehensive guide on using BDSM gags safely. 

Essentially, hygiene and maintenance of BDSM gags are essential components of responsible play. Understanding the distinct characteristics of each material is crucial not only for selecting the right gag but also for maintaining its hygiene and longevity. Consistent care and attention to detail elevate the BDSM experience, ensuring it remains safe, pleasurable, and respectful for all involved.