How to Live Your Life According to Your Rules?

Do you wanna live life according to your own terms and conditions? Are you super fed up of your life being ruled and managed by your family, work and your impelling circumstances? Do you want your rest of the life reigned by your own rules? If yes, then what can you do for it? How far can you go to live your life on your own terms? I am not trying to get you into any kind of mental pressurising quiz, all I’m doing is trying to make you crystal clear about your life goal and the efforts that are need to be taken. All of our lives really sucks!! It’s too obvious that leading a life like puppets with no zest and zeal have made our lives way too horrible than any horrifying movie.  We all need breaks, and live our life according to our choices, rules, terms and conditions before dying as life is way too short and we never know what’s gonna happen next. Alright, without much ado, here are the ways and ideas to live our lives according to our rules. Let’s get started!!

1. Get excited about the idea of living life according to you only

You need to manifest the goal and need of your idea in your mind so that nothing can stop you, no barrier can affect your decided idea. Be strong, determined and focused about your life and the reasons why you want to lead your life according to your specified rules.

2. Believe in yourself that you are capable of making decisions of own

Until and unless you get the trust on yourself, you couldn’t take a stand. You have to believe you are capable enough to make right decisions, not only making a deal with it but proving it right at every stage and need.

3. Make a note of the benefits you are expecting after living your life according to you

You could pursue a new career according to you, or you will be capable of getting engaged in a job that you love, you will be able to explore things and this world, whatever the benefits are just write it down and keep it safe for you.

4. Find a support on whom you can rely and share your feelings

It’s like a supportive friend who can boost you up, energizing and encouraging you what decisions you are taking. An honest and loyal friend who will guide you selflessly and honestly.

5. Stand up to the person who you fear the most

Be it your father, or your mother or anyone who find it tough to interact and make them understand your point. Try your best to make an equation with them calmly to let them know that you need to live your life according to you and your terms and rules.

6. Take over 100% responsibility of your life

Be responsible and try to take all the responsibilities related to your life so that no one can raise a question on your weakness. You change your world and the world will change for you.

7. Make more decisions of your life

Let yourself to take the decisions of your life which were previously done by your superiors. Show them that you are also capable of making right decisions.

8. Recognize your own value

If anyone makes fun of you or make you feel low and diminish you then take a stand and let them know what you think about yourself and how you expect the world to treat you. Don’t allow anyone to be dominant on you.

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9. Learn to say “NO”

The most important part is denying and saying no, yet try to make it more generously as your denial could be interpreted in a wrong manner creating all mess. Saying no can create an inevitable troubling situation, but you have to face it and overcome it being all cool and calm as your goal is achieving the right to rule your own life.

10. Be original

Yes, be what you are in real. You have to stand out of the crowd if you need your world to be changed. You can’t make any changes in your life until you get out of a crowd and masses. Don’t follow the mass rules created on the basis of confined opinions and views, you make your own, original and authentic choice and rule for yourself.

It’s not that easy for many people to live lives own their own terms, but don’t forget that you have got one life to live and achieve. You have no idea about your future. Give a try, again a second try then a third until you can fight for it. Because there will be no second opportunity if you let it go and adapt yourself according to your as usual “puppet lifestyle”, the day when you grow old and regret over it. So it’s better to take a stand rather crying and regretting over your failure.