Introducing the World of Sex Apps & Singles

Given that you’re here, you’ve probably been single for way too long. Was it a bad break up? Did your one great love get away? Or, have you never ever had a relationship since the day you were born? Don’t worry; there’s no shame in admitting your virginity. In fact, many people will find that fact thrilling. But you being here tells me that you have grown tired of the whole “alone but not lonely” game. You are lonely and it takes a lot of courage to admit that. So I commend you for coming out of your shell and looking for a way to connect with someone – finally.

Anyway, what you may be looking for isn’t exactly love or a steady relationship. Youth, after all, is the only time of your life when you’re allowed to experiment and it wouldn’t seem odd at all. It is that phase where you are allowed to make mistakes and the world would just let it go because you’re young, crazy, and – well, a little loose in the head. If you want to explore your sexuality, find out what you like and don’t like, discover how your body works and everything else along those lines – now, is the time to do it. I’m quoting a hip song that took off couple of years ago but be young, wild and free. Check this out: https://www.elitedaily.com/dating/ways-you-should-explore-your-sexuality/1573852.

Luckily, the internet is highly in favour of your little sexual rendezvous. In fact, many other singles worldwide are looking for that same kind of relationship. Nothing too serious or too strict, just two people coming together to have a good time. Sure, some people may find this idea appalling more than it is appealing but hey, to each his own. No one is forcing you to do anything that you don’t want to do. To put it bluntly, the choice to have sex casually is something that should come from your own resolve. Don’t let friends talk you into it. Or, don’t rush yourself just because everyone else is doing it. You are entitled to your own agency. Do what feels right for you at this time.

And if what feels right is exploring your sexuality, then we’re in no position to stop you. Let alone, reprimand you.

Anyway, we’re just here to help. So if you’re curious to discover more about yourself and your body, then maybe you can take our advice: Try online dating.

What Is Online Dating?

Online dating is basically meeting and getting to know new people online. Of course, since there’s the word “dating” you should expect to be romantically or sexually (or both) involved with these people. Online matches aren’t a new thing, really. It dates as far back as the 1960’s. So I guess you can say that humanity’s need to connect with others is something universal and timeless. People will always seek warmth from other people. So it’s not weird for you to feel the same.

In recent years, the online dating scene has grown into a very big industry. If you search in Google alone, you’ll find that there are thousands of online matchmaking websites like https://www.hookupwebsites.com. Some websites are exclusive to a certain place or country but many of them are open to everyone. This has considerably increased the number of interracial or multicultural marriages around the world. Japanese would marry Brazilian nationalities – and if I may put a word in, I just want to appreciate how lovely Japanese-Brazilian babies are. Because there’s a steady incline to the number of Japan-Brazil pairings, the world has even coined a term to refer to their beautiful children. It’s “Bravanese.” You’re probably wondering why it’s not “Brazanese.” I guess they just had to go with the former since it sounds way better. Anyway, there have been many other pairings: Euro-Asia, US-Africa, etc. Online dating has definitely made the world a smaller place – and it’s a good thing!

However, it’s also important to understand that online dating is not the same as it was several years ago. Today, a new “thing” has emerged and we refer to it as the “hook up culture.” Thanks to the internet, matches are made faster and easier. People meet their other halves way ahead of schedule because of the convenience the internet brings. But because it’s so easy, people tend to think that they can have it all. Instead of risking their hearts falling love, singles have come to see the merit in staying single while mingling. In short, they like the idea of having sexual relations without getting attached. Sex applications and mobile dating apps give way for people to meet new personalities and hook up with them in real life. Sex has become so casual that there are some singles who won’t even bother to woo you with a date. They’d go straight to asking if you want to sleep with them, have sex with them, and do all sorts of experimenting with them. After the deed is done, you both then go back to being complete strangers. How about that?

If this kind of relationship excites you, then maybe online dating is for you. Otherwise, there’s no shame in admitting that you can’t just go with the idea. Online dating is not for everyone. Also, not all cyber relationships end the same way. I know a lot of friends who met their life partners in promiscuous dating websites. Now, they’re happily married with one or two kids and their marriage is thriving. You see, you’ll never be able to predict what happens in your future. You never know when you’ll meet “the one” and settle down for good. Although a bit unconventional, you might meet the love of your life online. I mean, who knows right? What seems like experimenting at first might turn out as the real deal in the end.  

Well, the choice is up to you. Are you going to try it?