How To Deal With Psychopath Lovers?

Relationships get worse when you discover that your partner is a psychopath. Life turns hell dealing with a real psychopath lover.

Psychopaths also called as sociopaths or lunatics, are not only obsessed but also real insane persons, be it a guy or a girl. It’s totally not your fault to be in love with a psychopath as they have multiple personality disorders. If you get to know that your counterpart is a psychopath lover then, you really need to be cautious as they could be troubling you and could be dangerous too. Dealing with psychopaths is really not easy, but not impossible too. According to my experience you have to understand a psychopath more than him/her. However, if you were in a relationship with that person, I think it’s not gonna be too tough for you to predict and anticipate his/her next move or probable thoughts.

When I was fallen in the trap of my ex-boyfriend who was a dangerous and insane psychopath, all I learnt to tackle these people is by getting into their shoes and thinking like them to predict there next probable moves.

What kind of personality they have?

To deal and tackle with a psychopath lover you have to get the whole concept to your deep down. Initially when you meet a psychopath you can’t even imagine or guess that he/she is a psychopath/sociopath.

• They appear totally normal even more attractive and extremely charming initially. They try their best to flatter you, and make you feel like they are just like you and you are their soul mate.
• However, anyone could get confused because decent and loyal lovers also define you as their soul mate, but one thing differentiate psychopaths and real decent lovers amazingly, that is decent lovers always try to make you feel comfortable while getting intimate but sociopaths are very much hypersexual.
• They always try to get you into bed, and keep talking all dirty and filthy. Lunatic lovers either discard you after having sexual intimacy with you or will get obsessed with you like anything. They love controlling you.
• They initially start out a romantic relationship which gradually turns into a menacing and dominant bond.
• Sociopaths can’t bear anyone even watching you for more than a minute or touching you being friendly even. They can’t resist their possessiveness and get violent easily when you get involved in your opposite gender friends. Even if you talk to your friend over phone they will behave totally absurd, hence lose their temper.
• They become more dominant on you and suggest you how to get dressed, when to go out, and not going out alone with friends even.
• They will be choosing your friends for you to have friendship with and whom to cut out.
• Psychopaths are sex loving and hence they keep multiple sexual partners to fulfil their sex drives anytime on just a call. However, they will try their best to keep it a deep dark secret.
• After break ups, some psychopath lovers get more violent as they can’t tolerate any women to dump them as it’s their and only their right to use and dump women.
• They keep stalking you, calling you, threatening you more like blackmailing if they have any kind of photographs of your both, they consistently call you, text you even they could knock at your door anytime which gets really scary sometimes.

So, dealing with these kinds of people needs more patience and tough techniques. Here are they..

• Let them know that you are not happy in the relationship. You need to get separated and try to convey this all generously and emotionally.
• Tell him/her that you are getting hurt and abused by their behaviour and activities hence you will be discussing this entire scene with your parents and your nearest people, so that they can’t threaten you in future showing the fear of your nearest and loved ones.
• Meet for the last time with someone with you for your security and make it all clear that it’s over from your end.
• Don’t answer his calls, texts or mails. Totally ignore them.
• If still it pursues, seek the help of your country police or the local police station.
• Change your numbers, block him/her from your social networking sites, change all your privacy settings.
• Keep all his emails, messages and call records for future need as you may need it while police enquiry.
• If he/she bothers you in public, yell and rebuke them firmly.
• If you have kids, then make sure they safe and secure, never leave your children go alone or send them out of town till things get settled. You too better go out with a companion for your security as being alone could be a chance for the psychopath lover to attack you.
• Act like insane or crazy, to let them know that you are crazier than him/her. I remember my craziest act for my ex-beau, when he tried to blackmail me, threatening to edit my pictures in a vulgar way, all I did was, I said “I do know editing and I do have some of your sister’s photographs..so don’t ever try to mess with me..”. However, it’s not necessary that you will get the same opportunity but you need to think like him/her to scare them more.
• If nothing works move out of town for some days or permanently.

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