Have You and Your Partner Considered Swinging? Here are the 3 Things You Should Know First
You have a loving and solid relationship with your partner, but you are looking to spice things up a bit in the bedroom and you are both interested in swinging. First of all, there are a lot of things you need to take into consideration and discuss before you are ready to enter the world of real swingers. A lot of it has to do with you two and how you see each other. Also, how you enter this community, and who you choose to swing with is equally important. This article tackles the three most important aspects of swinging every couple needs to be prepared to consider before they decide to introduce swinging into their relationship.
Be Truthful to Yourself and Your Partner
The idea of swinging might sound interesting to you both, but if you are not open and honest about your feelings, it might be the end of your relationship. First of all, you need to be comfortable seeing your partner, the person you love, being intimate with someone else. There is no room for jealousy when it comes to swinging. It is important to understand that swinging is an act of physical intimacy, not an emotional one. So your partner is still committed to you, and faithful to you even though they are opting to have relations with someone else’s partner.
For some, it is hard to distinguish between physical and emotional intimacy and that can lead to problems within a relationship after you have tried swinging for the first time. For a lot of real swingers dating is a way of fulfilling their fantasy, and sharing that experience with their respective partner, fully knowing that it will strengthen their relationship, rather than dissolve it.
Make Sure You Choose the Right Circle of People
Who you choose to swing with for the first time can forever mark this experience for you. If you want to meet real swingers you can first try different online communities, where you can safely discuss your desires and build trust before actually meeting.
It is better to start with just one couple and then slowly build up to an actual swinger party. That way, your first swinging experience will be in a controlled environment and you can see how it affects both you and your partner, and if necessary stop the activity before it causes damage to your relationship. Make sure you get to know the couple you decide to do this with and preferably choose someone with swinger experience, that way they can teach you the basics and help you get more comfortable with the act itself.
The Aftermath
After your first swinging experience, it is essential that you have a conversation with your partner whether or not this is something you are both willing to repeat. Be as open about your feelings as you possibly can. Holding anything back can have a negative effect if you choose to repeat this practice and you or your partner are not 100% in.
If everything goes according to plan, and you both end up having the time of your life, then you can see what other options are available. From different local swinger parties, to attending larger events organized within this community. The possibilities are endless once you discover that this particular sex practice is exactly what you and your partner needed.
Now you are ready to make an informed decision whether or not you want to join the world of real swingers. It can be a lot of fun and a really good way of actually strengthening your relationship with your partner, if all the cards are on the table at any given time.
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