Girls!! All Indian Men Are Not Same

Our society is so much stereotyped and judgemental that, they consider entire male gender and female gender on the basis of some negative actions which gets approved by few male or female. If some women tend to lie in their relationships or get involved in some extra marital affairs then entire female race gets blamed. And if few men rape and molest a girl, then all men get encountered by this pigeonhole opinions, that all men are ba***rds. Now, these days it has been a serious issue which is sprouting more and more and needs a perfect attention to make the air clear. Being a girl, I really feel bad when real, decent and honest guys in India are falling into the craters of insult, harsh words and even slaps too. I honestly wanna help those men who are actually worthy men and make the air clear that all men are not same. Here are some views and facts which will make this society and especially women to think twice about all men. Let’s get started.

1. If all men are same then, why we women take so long time to choose a perfect life partner?

Have anyone ever thought about this? We, women and girls take our own time to find a real soul mate who will be a perfect husband for us. Most of us discuss with our friends, siblings and even parents that “this guy is different”, “I think he is perfect for me”, “I would love to spend my entire life with this man”, “he is the one”.

2. What about our fathers and brothers?

Our fathers and brothers who support our opinions, views and who hate those stupid idiots when they try to harm you or any girl. Do you wanna say that your fathers and brothers are not men?

3. And let me remind you about your best friend

Your that “boy” who stays beside you whenever you need him, to guide you, to help you to make you laugh and to protect you when you get abused and molested by any other idiotic super jerk. I’m sure every girl has one best friend who is boy who always stand up to her need anytime, not only one guy there would have a bunch of them, and I’m really proud of my “boy” friends.

4. Your best male teachers

Those teachers who taught you Mathematics, English, Physics and Chemistry with a real fun way and not only these they always show you the right way and direction which is your ultimate solution for any problem.

5. That auto driver…remember!!

When you were in the middle of a stress and frustration to reach a place which was too hard to find, but that man helped you roaming all those narrow lanes, roads to find your ultimate destination for that day and when you paid extra charges, he humbly denied with a smile on his face.

6. That stranger guy

That stranger guy in the local train checked that diagonally seated idiot who was staring your breast consistently, that guy stood in between as a barrier to stop that man looking at you and to make you comfortable.

7. Those men who helped you when your scooty was unanswerable

Those three men who helped you on middle of the highway that evening as you were so scared to reach your home all safe and sound.

8. Your favourite actors and inspiring idols

Those actors and inspiring great men who motivate you transforming your mind in a full broader way. Those men who are always in your best men example list, are not they men?

It’s our mindset that we criminalize entire men race on the basis of some wrong deeds done by few groups of men. Why all Indian men are subjected always to judgment for the rapes that some men have committed? When we become unable to make the distinction that only some men of a population committed the crime, we hence develop a negative stereotype for an entire men population which is called racism. When we permit a population to be subjected to stereotype, we permit those people to take action on a person based on that stereotype behaviour. It’s my humble request to all people, men and women please don’t judge any person based on some crime committed by few men. There are decent, honest and real men out there who respect women and could risk their life to save a woman too. So, accept the fact that “All Men Are Not Same”.

Here are two videos which is highlighting the veracity that there are some men who are unlike the rapists and molesters who create the fear and mindset in the society against all men. The first video is about a guy who is misinterpreted as a pervert by a girl and the second one reflecting that there are still some men who are noble and have the understanding of humanity and responsibility towards any women, being a real man.

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