How to Get Your Dream Mate by Law of Attraction?

Law of Attraction is a secret visualization with a belief that like attracts like. This law represents that emphasizing on positive thoughts we can achieve positive results. But law of attraction has its own process that is deciding your aim, focusing on that, fantasizing and putting some efforts too. Hence, if one wishes to get his/her dream mate by law of attraction then this law should be implemented precisely.

The following are the 10 ways which will help you to find your dream mate.

1. Make your dream mate’s criteria clear

I’m sure every person has a personal criteria about his/her dream mate, be it handsome, tall, slim, beautiful smart, rich and many more. But the problem is most women and men focus on the negative instead of focusing on positive ones.

Make yourself positively clear, so that you can convey the message to the universe that what you exactly desire, like “I want a man or a woman who puts me first and loves me unconditionally.”

Your affirmations are positive or negative by the way it makes you feel, so if it makes you feel great, it is positive.

2. Continue to dream and fantasize it

Now, if you want love in your life, one of the best things you can do is getting lost in day dreaming or fantasizing about your perfect dream mate. Imagining your ideal mate, the universe gets those visuals of our imagination as indicators of what you really want in your life. In your imagination, you can generate and enhance your desired relationship until it caters your highest ideal. Once you get the ideal image in your mind, repeat it over and over until the day you will find yourself actually living it. Remember, the power of your imagination is unstoppable and has the power to transform your love life.

3. Love yourself

Learn to love yourself as you can’t expect someone else to fall in love with you if don’t love yourself. When we adjudicate or criticize ourselves, we send out a negative energy that repels others. Hence, self-criticism is a negative energy that could repel prospective mates. However, self loving is quite attractive and even attracts prospective and potential mates. So, start with a list of ten characteristics that you love about yourself and place it where you can see it every day. The list should generate good feelings that you have toward yourself. The more you focus on things that you love about yourself, the more love you can give yourself. Gradually, others will fall in love with you too, because it feels great and lively to be around people who love themselves.

4. ‘Goodbye’ to jealousy

Feeling jealous is somewhat a natural factor about every human when you see someone experiencing or having something that you desire but don’t have. Jealousy actually keeps the love from coming to you. Jealousy is obviously a negative emotion and will hold back what you desire. Instead of being jealous, focus on your dream seeing someone else and your dream getting closer. So, better celebrate the love you see and bless all the loving relationships you get to see. This will convey the universe to bring you what you want and it will.

5. Never give up

Law of attraction usually doesn’t work when people give up their dreams before their wish is granted, which is like ordering for delicious meal and walking out the restaurant before your order arrives. So, believe that the order is on the way, but if you are no longer in associated with it, you will miss it. When it’s about love, people get disappointed when their dates don’t cater their expectations and hence they lose hope of getting true love. Being disappointed or fear they simply give up not knowing what they missed out. The clue to the law of attraction is that once you are clear about you desire specifically, you must be committed to it until it takes to manifest in your life.

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6. Don’t let doubt to come in

We all are living in a benevolent universe where it is possible to get and experience all our dreams, wishes and desires. But one of the biggest barrier in manifesting what we desire is falling in to doubt. We want or desire something, but we have got a doubt that is it really possible? The doubt actually keeps your desire away from you. Doubt is a negative energy which slams the door for our desires to come in and get manifested. But, if you are coordinated with attracting your perfect dream mate, there will be a sense of believing that he/she is on their way.

7. Enjoy your life now

Now if you think that your soul mate will come and you will be living your life after that with him/her happily then you are wrong. Don’t just wait for love to find you to start living. You will eventually attract what you are, so if you desire a mate who is active, goes skiing or skating and likes to read, so you better start jogging, getting on the slopes, be active. Initiate living your best life right now and you’ll be the super attractive so that one special person will be able to find you even in a crowd because you will shine.

8. Be the future you

It’s not about what are you now, be what you want to be in future when you find your soul mate. This is only best way to utilize the law of attraction to find your perfect guy or girl, so be the person who you will be in the relationship with the dream mate. Better, think of yourself now and imagine that you are in a perfect relationship. The way you will be or feel being with your soul mate be it relaxed, or confident, loving and kind, lively, funnier, active anything. Your answer is your key to who you must to be now. This will prepare your space for the dream partner.

9. Align your Beliefs in Order

Test and analyze your beliefs about love and get rid of the negative beliefs that don’t back your desire, like “I’m not attractive enough” … “Why one should love me” … “All the good ones are taken”. The universe has its own way of making your beliefs true, so if there’s a belief that don’t fortify your dream, better drop it, in fact develop the positive beliefs. The universe retorts to your feelings and wants about yourself; if you are feeling like unworthy or not deserving, the universe will reflect it back.

10. Don’t think how it would work

Your work is to clearly and positively decide what you desire most and to get associated with what you desire. Your job is not to think about ‘How’. Don’t waste your time thinking how it’s going to happen. Believe me we people are living in a magical universe that can bring us exactly what we desire the most in an amazing and even remarkable ways. Instead, let go the ideas and thoughts about how and let it be absorbed by the Universe, and allow it to do its own magic.

Note: But, let me tell you one thing, focusing on your dream or dream mate, imagining your life with him/her, loving yourself and the whole process doesn’t mean that you will just sit at home and do nothing. The difference is that you wait for the inspired action. Inspired action is the sudden feeling that you get when you go to the coffee shop even if you don’t want a coffee or you get out for gas station on the other side of the street. The law of attraction interacts with you through your instinct and divination, so get assures that you are listening and following your gut feelings and your instincts. Better be vulnerable to all possibilities, because you never know how the universe is going to surprise you.

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