12 Awesome Reasons of Being Single in 20s
This post was last updated on August 4th, 2016
Being single in your 20s is the best ever life you have got. Trust me! Getting yourself involved in a relationship embraced with lots of hugs, kisses and dates is the biggest and worst scenario you could ever experience. I am not single, unfortunately but saying you all these, because hey a sleep deprived person is the only one who can tell you the best and essential factors of sleeping. I am totally not against relationships, I do want to marry someday, have kids and want to be loved by someone. But, if we have so many plans ahead about being in love, getting married, having kids, then let’s keep those plans in a chest for 30s.
20s is your perfect time for exploring, developing, improving and enhancing. And relaxing too! So why do we need a relationship to be validated? To feel complete? Does being in a relationship, defines your 20s? So, what’s wrong to be single anyway? Okay, let’s talk about some best reasons to make you believe that being single in 20s can be awesome and much exciting.
1. You are totally a free bird
There’s no string attached. You are totally free as a bird. You can utilize your time the way you want. It’s all your time, your decision and your dreams. No, one will be asking you for any explanation, of course except your parents.
2. You don’t have to be ready with any explanation
Well, if you go out with your friends, have fun on a beach or choosing a new hobby or may be anything, there will be no guy or girl to ask you or to expect any explanations from you. It’s only you and your life.
3. You can travel your best
You can take any job you want, no restriction, no emotional blackmail. You will just pack your bag and ready for travel to your job destination. Even can explore all the places you want across the country or wherever you want to go.
4. You can focus on your career
After your graduation, the initial stage of your career needs more focus. You are still so young, so go and grab more skills and talent. Work your best, as hard as you can. Get the best out of it and enjoy your working life being totally single and free of tensions.
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5. You can get into your fitness regime
Wasted lots of time in college days, right? Had more junk foods? It’s probably the best time to get a flat tummy or biceps and abs. Go for gym, or do workouts, eat healthy stay healthy and look great. You are free birds, remember, so manage your ample time for yourself only in several ways.
6. Your free time is yours only
Free time being wasted by going on dates and hanging around with your partner’s friends, that really sucks. It’s your time, read whatever book you want, watch Mission Impossible franchise 10 times each, or have your hot chocolate or go for shopping, whatever you want to do in any manner. No, one’s going to trespass your free time.
7. You don’t have to look perfect all time
The most disastrous factor of being in a relationship is looking all time the best version of you. Now, when you don’t have anyone in your super duper free life, then you could sit down with your old grey pajama pants or stay at home without makeup and hairstyle all day. It’s you being truly loved and adored by yourself.
8. You at your top priority
Nothing is going to hold you back from any opportunity, for the sake of love, your partner or some plans made by your partner. It will always be your priority at top. Whatever you love to do, or desire you can get it and grab it anytime.
9. You can explore your passion and hobbies
You will get plenty of time for your passion and creativity. Arts, craft, new language, driving, swimming or photography whatever makes you happy and complete, you can spare your precious and sufficient time to your passion. Pursuing and living with hobbies even lowers the stress level. You will be happy always.
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10. You can experiment a lot of things
Yes, if you ever wanted to have a spiky or a short hairstyle or go blonde then no big deal. No one is going to stop you. It’s your desire, chop your hair off, try new styles, get yourself again and have lots and lots of fun.
11. Your holidays belongs to you
No more visiting your lover’s family on Thanks giving day, or Christmas or Halloween day. It’s you and your family. Celebrate with your family, spend your quality time with your mom and dad. Sit with them, discuss about happiness, sadness troubles and dreams whatever. Get your childhood days back.
12. You can be back to your old friends circle
Never ever ditch your friends and try to be in touch with them. Have fun, hang out with your friends. Do all those crazy insane things you used to do with your friends. Friends are some people who will be always there for you at any cost. So, be with them and be the life of your friends circle.
Now guys, if you are single, you are the luckiest person of this world, believe me. Don’t regret being single, as it’s a god gift according to me. It not only saves your time, money and energy, but also makes you realize your real potential and your dreams. Don’t waste time in attracting your crushes, rather go enjoy your every single bit of life being single and young. Ahh! I wish I could have…
Priyadarshini Muduli
A full time passionate writer with imperishable determination to bring healthy, smart and pragmatic changes individually and socially. Concentrate especially on lifestyle, life and personal improvement, relationships, mental health and behavior, viral issues and literature based subjects.