3. Be A Bit Selfish Too!
Now this may feel contradicting but this is actually in line with the point no.2. While you need to sometimes let go the things that you deserved just for keeping others happy, you also need to line up your priorities and fulfil them for yourself. You need to understand that there are times when you need to be selfish or you may be positioned as a person who can be easily defeated and who cannot stand for himself.
In fact, always being selfless will rob your charm in front of your family members for whom you want to secure a successful and happy life. You will also be less respected at your work space and people will start taking you for granted. Even you will start feeling dejected and discouraged when you are not giving yourself a sense of motivation.