When a girl is single, she enjoys her freedom to either stay at home or work to earn extra money to pay for her impulsive shopping expenses. She is mostly not compelled to follow series of instructions, which come hand in hand after marriage. Yes…marriage! Every girl waits for her dream boy to come and expects that their life will be like a fairy tale – living happily ever after! But what about post marriage circumstances.
The girl automatically becomes a daughter-in law who has the responsibility of keeping up the reputation of the family and is bound to follow all the traditions and rituals as per their culture while sacrificing her wish of doing a job. But in today’s world, where we talk so much about women empowerment and we have all sectors filled with women employees, then why are our daughters in law still entangled with the cleaning and washing job! Women are truly capable of handling work and home simultaneously with equilibrium and we have endless examples of it in our own society.
Mostly while upbringing girls, parents teach daughters that when they grow up, their duty will be to take care of home and family. She has to bid adieu to her job and career aspirations when she chooses to marry. But in today’s time, women need to learn to be independent and they cannot afford to confine themselves within the walls. They must be able to earn a living so that they complement their spouses in contributing in the household income and at the same time they will learn to survive rough patches in life.
To know why girls should not close the doors of career post marriage, read these 10 reasons why girls should continue working after marriage:
1. Learn To Become Independent
Working at home in a robotic manner everyday may start making you feel that you are not worthy enough for an independent life. But when you start working, despite the amount you earn as remuneration, you get to do something that makes you feel that you are not dependent on anyone for anything. If you don’t start doing a job, then for travelling to other locations and going for shopping will be tasks where you will be completely dependent on your spouse. It is true that life without family is incomplete but being free to think and act is also important for being happy.